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out of your league.


Question Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 4:44 pm

well, i like this guy, and i think that i am way out of his league, i'm not ugly, not trying to be conceited but most people think i'm pretty, i'm like average, i have bigger boobs, a C and I'm 5'7 with dirty blonde curly hair. I mean i have hooked up with some really hot guys but most of my relationships are with people that most people don't find attractive, but i do. Well, this guy i like isn't what i would call hot, he's more like adorable, but he's like more popular, my friends are friends with some of his friends, but i don't know. Do you think that i should suck it up and go for it, or maybe lay low and if he makes a move then go for it, i don't know, i just don't want to be rejected...

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LoStNcOnFuZeD answered Friday November 16 2007, 10:14 pm:
Don't let the fear of rejection or failure keep you from pursuing the things that you want. One of the worst feelings is having to look back and say "what if?". I say go for it. But before you do, I think you need to understand that a person's worth, or "league", isn't determined by how "hot" or how "popular" they are. It's determined by who they are as people. You'll be able to determine whether or not this guy is in your "league" based on how he treats you as an individual and who he is as a person.

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computergirl16 answered Friday November 16 2007, 10:09 pm:
You should definitely go for it, in life you have to take chances. A long time ago I really liked this kid and I was really shy and couldnt make a move until once I grew the balls and did it. (I don't literally have balls) lol. But yeah and then he ended up liking me back, you'll never know until you start talking to him. It could be the beginning of something good :)

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