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but he has a girlfriend?


Question Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 11:09 pm

I have a guy friend who recently moved from across the country who I really click with, we hug all the time and can talk on the phone for hours, but he has a girfriendfrom "back home". I'm starting get a crush on him, but I would never do anything to hurt his relationship. I have always believe that long distance relationships dont work for very long and as sweet as they are together, I just dont think it can last.

I just want to know if you guys think there is a chance he likes me back.

I think I should wait it out and just be there for him if/when its over.

but i dont knoww
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Additional info, added Thursday November 8 2007, 10:19 pm:
Also, he seems really committed to their relationship ( they have promise rings) So I HIGHLY doubt he is going to dump her because of me.


we are both 15 and I think that way to promise your self to someone anyway


he is going back to visit her on thanksgiving vacation for a surprise. ( i know this sounds horrible but im kind of hoping they get in a fight or something :/ urgggg... )

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tylersgurl86 answered Thursday November 8 2007, 7:33 pm:
if he doesnt like you now theres a huge chance he will like you sometime dont rush him.just keep being buds with him and dont act like you like him but dont be mean either.Also do act like you are falling all over him guys dont like that they like to chase the girl not the other way around.so give him some time.i have the same thing happening but i gave him some time and last weekend he told me he likes me.so just be yourself and dont show off! good luck! i hope it works out!

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ammo answered Thursday November 8 2007, 6:25 pm:
Although some long distance relationships don't work I can't say that applies to all relationships. I've seen many long distance relationships last it out, depending on the people involved and how loyal the couple are (i.e. how easily either can be made to cheat on the other).

Regarding whether he likes you back or not I have no clue. To be honest there's not really much information there to suggest one way or another so that's somehting you should really ask yourself and judge for yourself but you've also said you don't want to hurt his relationship in which case what to do should be pretty simple enough which is leave things be until there is such a time that you can do something. If he does break up with his gf because of the distance (or any other reason) then by all means tell him how you feel and such) but until then it's really all down to you.

Bottom line... you can tell him and you'd go back on wanting to not hurt his relationship because him knowing he has someone closer might be all he needs to dump his gf (most guys cant hold a relationship where there's no physical contact be it sexual or otherwise). On the other hand if you don't say anything someone else could very well come along and do so in which case you may lose your chance with him altogether anyway. On the other hand you can just not say anything and wait it out and see what happens.

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