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good boyfriend, iffy relationship
15/f
ive been goig out with this guy for almost 4 months (this is the 2nd time we went out) and hes great, hes alwasy there for me when i need him which i do alot. we've always been great friends before and after we went out and hes great. its just, i dont love him and he doesnt love me.. we just like each other. and i dont find him very sexual.. like i am not wanting to jump ontop of him all the time and stuff. i feel bad becasue i mean, if we keep going out and it gets to a certian point then we'll stil only be making out because i just don't feel that way for him. and i can't say that im not ready because ive already had sex/done alot before and he knows that. i really don't know what to do, i like him and his family, friends, everything that comes with him is amazing too, but i just worry. any help is appericated
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It's rough when you realize you are just not that into someone.
Better to be honest, sooner rather then later. You are only wasting your time, and his. Drawing it out will only make it hurt more.
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It sounds like you see him as more of a friend since you say that you are not physically attracted to him. Which is perfectly fine, I think you should just be friends, not dating. If you are as good friends as you feel that you are, you should be able to maintain the friendship without being in a relationship. By staying in a relationship where you do not feel physically attracted to the other person you are only hurting yourself in the long one, and you may be missing your chances with other guys. I'm just trying to say that if you both feel that there is no physical attraction, then you should probably just be friends.
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