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is he not into me ? =[[


Question Posted Friday November 2 2007, 4:58 pm

I met this guy at my dads friends party. i liked him ever sense i saw him he was soo cute but i didnt REALLY like him till he was talking to my dads friends son and i saw his personality, a bit. then we started talking and i liked him RIGHT away. soon he had to leave but i asked for his number and he asked for mine. soo long story short whenever i talked to him from then it allways made me soo happy and in such a good mood he would waste his time talking to me. but you know i was allways cool about it i never called him to much or text him to much just like once in three days or whatevr cause i didnt want to get annoying. but i felt annoying when he didnt talk to me for a long while. so i decided to lay off about a week l8tr without talking to him i felt so bad i accualy screwed it up with this guy [i was THAT insucure]and accualy cried overnight. worst night ever over me not even talking to him! then i called him mad i thought i DONT deserve this! im gonna call him and figger out what the heck is going on cause he never calls me back, imagine that he didnt pick up. the next day though he texted me, and we talked and i was happy. the day after that i called and we talked. then stopped till i texted him a few days l8tr. now a few daays ago i talked to him and as allways i felt great talking to him, we talked about everything, and his friend was there too and he accualy flirted with me then . ALOT. he would tell me i was hott and whatnot and that he wanted to see me, stuff like that . i asked him why he hasnt returned my calls. his friend yelled out CAUSE HES LAZY! and he laughed on that. afew days later called again, you get the picture. he even texted me night sweetie one time. i feel it keeps going over and over he have a GREAT time talking then he dissapears on me. he gets me all happy but know later i will get in a bad mood feeling i did somthing wrong cause he never returns texts. i dont know, is he just not into me or not much of a talker or what ? i like him soo much and think of him every day. he seems into me on the phone but after that nothing. but hey if he says hell call me that night in a few he will that must count for somthing. please advice !


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ShineyStarz answered Friday November 2 2007, 5:32 pm:
Warning: I am not responsible to anything bad happens because I am not one with romance >.<

OMG that's so cute xD

I think he's into you but check really well if he's a pervert or flirts with a lot of girls, you can't be sure; it's a guy of course so you have to be extra careful.

He could be like his true self on the phone (texting) but maybe he's really shy about how he acts outside in public (because that's the same with me).

I think the problem here is that you're both too scared to talk to each other that much in public and have eye contact. It's easier on text message right? That's why when you stopped calling, he doesn't phone back until you call or if he has the guts to start calling first.

I think that you're over-exaggerating this about the texting and responding. And maybe for sometimes why he doesn't respond, yeah, maybe he's friend's right, maybe he is busy.

It's just like some people these days. Students are working so hard they don't have time to play on the computer anymore or go on msn, same thing.

I think it can work out, these things don't happen overnight.

Good luck and hoped I helped!

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