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How do you tell a long time lover that the sex is not so gre
I have been with this guy for a really long time but I hate that he thinks the sex is so good because it makes it hard to really tell him what I want. What do you suggest?
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Well if you have been together for a long time, I would like to think that he is open to listening to you. It is hard if he thinks it's all good but he only thinks that because he doen't know any better. If you sit him down maybe over his favorite meal, with his favorite drink and bring it up as if you want to make it better, not just fix what he's doing wrong, then I believe he will be more apt to listening and absorbing, rather than being defensive.
Assure him that you like what he does but want to keep things new and fresh. If he is the type that likes to talk about how good he is, he will definitely want to be the best he can be!!
Good luck to you!
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