he might of thought i was flirting with this guy...now he wont talk to me
Question Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 3:08 am
OK, im kinda in love. well he asked me out and he was already my friend. i had just gotten out of a relationship. i said yes. but before that i said i dont know about a gazillion times. Ok the way i ack around guys comes of as flirting. well i think he might of thought i was flirting with this guy. well now he wont talk to me and im depressed. what should i do. 13/f
What should you do? Have fun. Be friends with tons of guys and girls. Go out as a small group and watch movies, go to a playground and be totally silly pretending your kids again, have pizza parties. Have a great time! Don't worry so much about being in a relationship. At 13, it seems like only yesterday you were just getting over the idea of boys having cooties! There is no reason for you to be getting into intense relationships at 13. What if you are going out with a boy and someone you REALLY like comes along? Now you have to break up with the first guy causing a lot of resentment and heartache. If I were you, I would just be friends with EVERYONE for a few more years until you decide what it is you find most appealing in a boy and THEN see what happens. That way you can flirt with all the boys you want (for a little while) and not have to worry about boys getting jealous because you aren't "tied down". Flirting is fun anyway, don't you think? You can't really be flirting with anyone if you have a steady boyfriend and that takes some of the fun out of it. Don't rush. Have fun. Have LOTS of fun!!! There is no need to get too serious with one person for a few more years yet. [ familyfirst's advice column | Ask familyfirst A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.