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can't get the guy
I think I am reasonably pretty. I have blue eyes, brown hair and have clear skin. Maybe not sexy beautiful, but just, like, pretty beautiful, you know? Well, I am getting tired of being alone. The last boyfriend I had was in second grade, and I have been out of the game then for the last 6 years. I know, I don't have to have a boyfriend at 13 and a half, but I've watched from the sidelines my friends kissing and dancing and laughing since 6th grade. I have fun too, just not with a significant other. It seems like I have been forgotten by anybody worth my time. My friends are totally insensitive to any grumpiness about it, and I just feel like no matter what I do, I can't attract anybody. I don't know why. I am tall for my age, thin, pretty, smart, and stylish. The only thing I can see as a disadvantage is my fair skin. I have very light skin, but I can't imagine that it would hinder my romantic chances this much. I just feel like nobody sees me as pretty, or desirable, and I'm sick of it, but I don't know what to do or say.
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i agree with dance dance, confidence is sexy. also, you may have to venture out into the world. i'm guessing you've probably lived in the same spot for most of your life and almost everyone knows you? alot of people probably see you as just a friend, so i think you should try and meet some guys from different schools. and just be flirty but don't forget who you are because getting a guy and being totally fake, it just isn't worth it. now, the probably with that part of my advice, you're probably like, how in the world do i do that? go to a school sporting event. there bond to be fans for the other team there, and possibly cute boyssss :] so just gather up the confidence to talk to them about the game, and be sure you know what your talking about so you don't give a bad first impression. good luck, and i hope i helped! :]
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The first thing you need to do is have confidence. If you are just standing alone in a corner looking unhappy, guys arent going to think too much of you. Be more yourself.
The second thing is looks arent everything. Yes, they help, and at your age they probably are everything, but personality is also key. Like i said, be yourself.
Do you like anybody at your school? Flirt with them, heck, just be a little more flirtatious than usual. It makes you easier to approach.
If you need any more help, drop it it my inbox
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