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how to stop being jealous?
how do you stop being jealous from my boyfriend being close friend with his ex? because when me and his friend went to his house his friend saw the bunny from his ex(he has it in his room) and when his friend was touching it my bf was like"dont touch it" and i kinda got jealous and next day at lunch when me and my bf and my friends were hanging out one of his friend said "jen(his ex) is waiting" and he went to her. and when they were on the phone i asked him about the teddy bear and he was keep asking if i was jealous and i didnt admit it. and finally i told him that i was and i asked him about the bunny and but he was like" even though your telling me this im not gonna take it off because its my favorite stuff toy" and he told me not to get jealous i could accept that they are close friends but im jealous =/ what should i do make myself not to get jealous?
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Well myself i have had that happen so you can tell him this ok you dont have to take it down but please don't have it around me when i come over like put it in the closet or something and talk to the girl and ask if she still likes him see what she says if she says yes tell your bf maybe he will back up a little from this chick but if they talk more then you talk to your own bf then maybe he still has feelings and if he keeps on talking and flirting get one of your ex's and flirt a little and if your bf says something to you just tell him that is how you felt when he hung out with that girl ok well good luck tell me how it goes Bye.
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I don't think you have an issue here of how to make yourself stop being jealous but rather why is your boyfriend continuing behaviors that would make any girlfriend jealous? They may just be close friends but I am not sure he is completely over her. It sounds as though he is rather immature. He needs to respect that these things are hurting you, especially since you actually told him. He is not respecting your feelings.
A more mature person would probably have given anything the previous lady gave him-back to the previous lady. He is keeping the stuffed toy as a momento... why else does a grown man keep a stuffed bunny?
He may not be ready for a relationship yet and if he is hurting you emotionally by keeping close to his ex... you deserve better and should move on to someone who only has eyes (and a heart) for you.
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