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i'm falling for a guy i've never met.
I'm 15 years old, female i live in Iowa. i've never liked the computer much, but for the past six months, ive been on it every night for an average of five hours and sometimes more. the reason-- i met this guy, he's 17 and he lives in california. the first time i met him, we talked for 14 hours straight. (not exagerating) he's so great.. i can talk to him about anything and i'm understood so well.. i can understand him too and he says he's never felt the way he feels when talking to me...this probably sounds creepy but it's honestly not. i really love him.. i don't know why. i just do. i know 15 is young to love and probably to young. i've never felt this way about a guy.. i look at other guys and see nothing in them, no future. i just want him. We both have these feelings and want to meet. i know it's dangerous. I've been warned about how he can be different in person or not even be what he says he is. also that he could rap/kidnap/kill me. I know all of the bad stuff that can happen yet i still want to see what could happen. I don't want to ask myself 5 years from now what could have happened if we did meet. Even through all of this, i'm scared alot. it's so hard to like someone so much who is so far away. is it wrong for me to want to meet him in person?... if not.. what should i do? <<<<<< Sorry this is soo long!>>>>>>
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All those warnings of people lying about their identity online, or chatting with people for dangerous reasons (rape, murder, etc), are there for a reason. Lots of people have fallen in that trap and have suffered the consequences. This guy may or may not be dangerous, but it isn't worth the risk of (maybe) finding out the wrong way. It also isn't healthy to be on the computer so much, even if it seems fun. You should limit that...and also, I know it may not be what you want to hear, but it's not a good idea to meet this guy. You never know what can happen, and it's never worth the risk. There are a lot of creeps out there who try to lure young people. It's best to stop chatting so much, and try meeting people in person...it's much safer. In five years, you will be way over this, trust me.. so you won't be wondering what could have happened, since you'll hopefully make the right decision and watch out for your safety.
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