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Does it make me a "fake" person?
Well, let's see, where should I start? My name is Sarah and I'm 13 years old and a female. I'm very smart as for school. I'm a tutor, big buddy, in National Junior Honor Society, Straight A student, I've had poetry published, and I'm in advanced classes. I love all my teachers and they love me. The school counselor is like my best friend and we are always laughing and kidding around, but I dont think I could talk to her about this problem I'm having. You see, I've smoke ciggerettes for about a year now and over the past few months I've been drinking and getting high with one of my friends. Its not her though. Liz is my BFF. She never forced me to do anything. I decided on my own. My question is, Does this make me a "fake" person?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health?
Fake is subjective. Do you feel fake? Maybe you are just conflicted over doing something that you KNOW is not in your own best interest. Ask yourself why you are doing things that may be regretted later. Sometimes we all need our private space, a time and place to escape from stress, and the pressure of doing everything else right in your life may be contributing to your private activities. There is nothing wrong with your need to escape or want to break from the usual routine, but your values and health are not something to bargain with or give up in your search for relief. Part of maturity is facing your fears and all the feelings that are beneath the surface. Talk about any pressure you are feeling with trusted friends and adults...find some healthier ways to express your self and frustrations that will not damage your lungs and put you at risk. Every action we take has a huge effect on our mind, body, soul. "Escape is never the safest path." Pearl Jam
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