im john i am 13 and realy need help as i realy have an urge to have sex although i know i shouldnt i have tried masturbating and porn but it doesnt make a diference what should i do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? teardrops7 answered Monday October 15 2007, 6:17 pm: well your changing and your hormones are going crazy. your gonna have some urges that you cant control--its what happens. But i strongly caution you--DONT HAVE SEX---ive seen it, it ruins lives. im not saying that your one to go out and do that but just know that it is something that will generally pass with time. your 13 and that is generally that time where your body begins to mature. so like i said it is just something you cant control. but just take it day by day, you need to know your not alone. millions of teenage boys are going through this. so maybe you should just relax a little bit and try to take your mind off of it. i know i know your 13 and sexual things are bound to pop up in conversations. just try to take your mind off of it. it might help. but seriously, its just hormones, they will pass i promise. boy or girl they all do the same thing--it passes. im not garunteeing no overnight recovery deal but i am saying it is just a part of pubrety, (or however you spell it..) everyone goes through it, like i said it is just something you cant control and something that everyone goes through...hope i helped!!
xoxo
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