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please don't suggest therapy
15/f
hi. im feeling like i am worth the same amount as a pile of dog poo. My really good friends are no longer speaking to me because of god knows why, i went from being a straight A student to basically all D's and F's, my digestion issues keep getting worse and worse to the point where i can literally only eat 20 food items...all of which are highly disgusting and boring, my body has gone from "modelesque" to disgustingly flabby and body fat rolls, i used to be really outgoing, talkative, but now i can barely find things to say even to my parents (we're REALLY close), i haven't had my period in practically 2 1/2 months (REALLY ANNOYING) and im ALWAYS sick. I think i have chromes disease (always having an AWFUL upset stomach and diarrhea and basically feeling icky--o, and there's NO meds or cures). i really want my life to change, but i just can't. I feel as if my life should end, because i just want to be happy, but i know suicide isn't a good thing at all (not even a consideration for me) but i just don't know how to overcome this. Please help me. i honestly don't know what to do. O and please don't suggest therapy because 1)we don't have enough money for sessions, and 2) i HATE spilling my guts, even this is hard for me. i hate showing emotions in front of people, especially ones i don't really know.
if you could help me out, w/o telling//advising me to go into therapy, u might just change my life from disastrously depressing, to happy for once
thanks
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Hi. First off, I'm really sorry you're going throught this hard place in your life. I'm one of those people that hates counselors and tharapy too, so I kind of understand you there. A couple of years ago, I went througha spot like this, and I don't exactly know where you stand in religion, but I kow what helped me. I started reading the Bible and praying more. No, it doesn't cure you, but it made me feel like someone was there thtat inderstood completely what I was going through. It made the hard days easier, and eventusally I got through it. Have you also considered medicine for depression? That might not have anything to do with your situatuion, but it's possible. And there are medicines out there that help syptoms for Chromes Disease, if its doctor diagnosed. I hope I helped!
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You don't have to go to therapy to feel better about yourself. It is suggested because sometimes it helps, but if you don't feel it helps, then it won't help.
HOWEVER. You THINK you have Crohn's Disease. Is this something diagnosed by a doctor? If not, it needs to be, because there IS medicine to help you. There may be no medicinal cure for it, but there is medicine to alleviate symptoms.
This link shows treatments:
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Just getting your body back on track and your digestion working better would probably make YOU feel better.
Or at least it's a damn good start.
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