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break up? stay? ahh.. =/
I have a boyfriend that I've been going out with for about 9 months now and things have been kind of crappy lately 1. our relationship isn't sexually exiteing enough that kind of sounds bad but out of nine months of going out I've been fingered once and I've given him hand jobs countless amounts of time and was thinking about giving him head 2. we've been fighting ALLL THE TIME over really stupid things he will piss me off i get mad then he makes fun of me being mad and BAM EXPLOSION * we got in a huge fight yesterday and I was like how come you always have to make me feel like crap (his sense of humor him "joking around" is kinda aggravating me lately) I told him about it before and i told him its getting worse and I'm sick of fighting with him all the time .. we cant even talk on the phone anymore without getting in an arguement (btw WE NEVER USED TO FIGHT BEFORE) but on the other hand he's always there for me and when i'm upset he's always there to help me feel better but i'm sick of fighting and i can't like change who is his because his sense of humor that aggravates me is basically who he is; i'm losing patience with him..
AND I'm kind of really attracted to another guy and he's becoming more appealing to me lately
what should i do.. should i breakup with him?
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i am very sorry for how long it took me to answer this ...ive been really busy lately
anyway you seem a little more mature that your boyfriend,mostly because he doesnt act like he knows when to be serious and when to joke around.My advice to you is break up with him if you feel that you cant make it through your fighting and the whole sexual frustration thing.I mean how long can a relationship really last if the major part of his personality aggravates you?plus..its not like you need to tie yourself down to one person just yet,your young have fun!On the other hand if you really want to work things out and you think that maybe he deserves another chance,you NEED to stop fighting.Try just talking to him without yelling or screaming just say "i understand that your sense of humor is who you are and i would never even think of making you change your personality but sometimes you need to act a little more respecting towards my needs and mature,especially 9 months into the relationship" and about the kid your attracted to...he should only be in the picture if your decision is to break up with your bf for YOU.if you do it for some other guy,your expectations will be too high for him and if he lets you down,youll regret breaking up with your boyfriend in the first place.Just remember whatever decision you make will make you happy.
good luck!
Cassie
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