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plz help me A.S.A.P
ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
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Thanks for the question - I'll try my best to answer this awkward situation:
To be honest, saying he wants to "sleep with you" without even dating you yet sounds a bit suspicious - meaning he could only be into you so he gets something out of it (sex). Another reason for me thinking this is because he didn't tell his friend he liked you and had to make up a lame reverse psychology story. He will have to tell him the truth sooner or later if he DOES like you anyway, so why didn't he do it already? Plus, it's not your fault if his friend has a crush on you. You can't help not feeling the same way.
It's too hard to say whether he likes you or is just messing, because I don't know how he feels deep down about you - but from the story you've told me, things sound a bit odd.
My advice to you?
Ask him what's going on. and be straight about it. You've liked this guy for 7 years and I doubt you would want to waste more time on him if you didn't have to. If you don't want to do it face to face, IM, email, txt, etc.
For all you know, he may really like you but doesn't want to hurt his friend.
You'll never know if you don't ask - so be strong and do it.
I'm wishing you the best of luck!
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