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always and forever just friends
15/F
hey!! I really want a boyfriend. i've never had one before (that includes even a first date and kiss), and it makes me all depressed. Sometimes i feel like its the most important thing in the world. I guess im just "the friend" to all guys. Its as if all of them see me as just another one of their buddies, and nothing more. I've asked a bunch of people and they all say that the way to become gf and bf//get a date is to start out being friends. now i have a bunch of friends, and again, nothing more. I really want a relationship right now, becuase i'm feeling worthless, as if nobody wants me. Im always the 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th, 11th, and even 13th wheel with my friends-who ALL have boyfriends/girlfriends. Im tired of being a wheel. so i guess my question is...HOW DO I FLIRT without saying that i like him?? i know that i have to laugh at their jokes (funny or not), smile alot, be touchy feely, but im just not comfortable wtih that (touchy feely), becuase its so not my personality. so if u could please help me out and give me advise for "flirting 101: for the shy 'just friends'", that would be AMAZING
thanks so much♥
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
First, never feel you are worthless just because you don't have a boyfriend. Instead of focusing on just getting a boyfriend, try and focus on trying to find the right guy to go for. After you find a guy to crush on, then try and get to know him really well, and get really close to him. After that, you can finally start dropping him hints. :) It'll be easy because you'll already be close, meaning it won't be too awkward. And no one says you have to be touchy feely, because most guys aren't actually into that.
I really hope that helped. :)
Sincerely,
Lou
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Really Just be yourself you shouldn't have to change who you are just so you can have a boyfriend and even if you don't believe this there is always someone out there that likes you they just might be afraid to tell you!! And flirting doesn't always work some guys don't like it and some guys think that "Hey she is flirting with me I like it, but if I ask her out she might be flirting with all the other guys" so there isn't really any way for someone to really tell or show you how to be a flirtatious person you just have to be yourself and find your own strategies.
I hope this helps!!!
Good Luck!!
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