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recently single, someone please help me out.
14/f, 15 in ten days, if that matters.
so, my boyfriend broke up with me on thursday.
we werent dating for a long time, but it seemed like we were, because we started acting like a couple like a month before he asked me out.
at first, i thought it was no big deal, we would still be best friends, and everything would be great.
and when we hung out at school, it was, there wasnt really a difference other than not holding hands.
but today, i was on facebook, and i saw under the notifications that he changed his status from ina relationsip to single, and for some reason, it really really hurt. i felt so sick, and upset, and all these other emotions i cant begin to describe.
i just feel so awful now, and i know that i still like him.
i know i dont love him, and we're too young for that, so please dont lecture me that other boys will come, because i already know they will, but i need to know what to do for now.
i need to know how to deal with the present, and please dont say just get over it, because i really doubt i can "just get over it".
sorry for the lengh.
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i wont lecture you because im only sixteen but what i think is that the the guy that broke up with you is a bastard and deserves pain so i think you are right you cant just get over it but what i will tell you is just to take it one day at a time because there is no specific amount of time for healin from breakup i hope everything goes well with you sweetheart best wishes
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I know it is hard to get over, but I PROMISE that you will, in due time, do just that. I know, that doesn't help.
You have to realize that by changing his status to single, he is only being honest. I know, I know, that doesn't help either.
Avoid looking at his stuff on facebook (I don't know how to say it other than that because I don't even know what facebook is... I assume like myspace?)
Try to steer clear of him all together for a while. You need to allow yourself some time and space away from him until the pain stops, or at least lessens to where it isn't stabbing your heart and what not.
Try to avoid talking to him, IM, facebook, myspace, texting, or whatever all it is kids do to talk to one another these days. If he happens to ask why you are avoiding him, tell him it is just because you need some time to get yourself back in order. He may not seem like it, but I'm sure he is equally as effected.
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