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i like him ALOT, but I remind him of his ex
I like this guy lets call him "Phil"(random name). I have a crush on him, he's at my new school. He plays guitar, is short, but cute, he luvs the same music i do(fob, mcr, p!atd, and to top it all off my locker is right next to his and we sit next to eachother for every class because of the seating chart. So today he sits next to me and my friend Tori for lunch. He says I remind him of his ex girlfriend. Now, from what I know from talking to him, he only has had one girlfriend and she and him were together 3 weeks ago, but he asked her to go to homecomeing with him, she said no and she brokeup with him. He was evidently head-over-heels for her.
FYI: I have a short attention span. So i just hear him say creepy and point at me. So i turned my head and said 'What's wrong with me being creepy?' He threw his hands up in surrender and said "I said it's just creepy how much you are like my ex-girlfriend"
He's SO nice and cute! There's a Sady Hawkin's dance comin' up, so i was wondering what do u think he meant by that I'm like his ex, is that good or bad given the past.
I want him to know that I'm not some carbon clone of his ex if he does like me. How should I go about this. What would you do?
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Well, frankly I don't know.
He can mean "You're like my ex, which is good because I'm still head over heels for her!"
Or
"You're like my ex, which is bad because I hate her guts now and I don't want to be reminded of her."
I really, really, really do not know.
The next time you have time to talk to him, randomly ask "How am I like you ex?" *He says how you're like his ex" Then you ask "Is that a good thing or a bad thing?" *He says good or bad* If it's good: "So wanna go to the dance with me?" if it's bad: "Give me a chance to prove to you that I'm not like your ex (Or whatever bad qualities he may have said about his ex) by going to the dance with me." OR if you're bold, add to that "Because I really like you and I'd hate to lose a chance for you to get to know me because of something that may not be true."
You might have to tweak that to fit into the situation. I'm just giving you the general outline there.
Hmm, yeah. That's all I can tell you. Also, be yourself! Don't change or do something not like yourself just to try and impress him or something.
Good luck!
Emily
15/f
PS. I'm an obsessed MCR fanatic fan as well!
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