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How do I respond?
Okay, I'm a female and 15 years of age. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost a month. Okay, at the last school dance he was pretty well hitting that he wanted to make out. He was kissing me a lot! Okay... I've never made out with anyone before.. and neither has he (good thing too) i was completely shocked. Not nervous.. just completely weird because i had no idea what i was doing! I'm afraid to say anything because i dont wanna feel like an idiot!I really like him and all.. i just dont know how to respond and I dont want to give him the wrong idea.. like i dont like him or something. So what do I do? Seeing as he always has his arms around me.. n trying to kiss me whenever he gets a change. I love that he's showing how much he cares and stuff.. just it's a bit new for me.. and HIM!!! So...help please!? Thanks a bunch,
sincerely,
Confused but Happy Girl.
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I remember being in your EXACT situation. Guy's minds don't mature as fast as ours do. They do care about you but really like mobing forward. This isn't a bad thing, it's just a life thing.
You really really need to sit down and talk to him about how he feels and where this is going. It's totally normal for you two to be making out, and for you to be a little bit shy about it.
You shouldn't worry about being perfect at it. It's your first time! It's honestly probably gonig to be awkward at first, but HEY! That's ok! Don't look into it as much. If you don't feel comfortable talking with him, just go with the flow. Living in the moment can always make you feel better. If it happens, it'll happen. And I promise you, you'll feel better.
Just relax and enjoy the time you have with him. Realationships can be so much fun!
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