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What do I do? I'm a bit confused.
Okay, I'm 15 and female. I have an amazing boyfriend. I care about him so much. Here is the thing, most of my friends are hitting on him. Just to make things clear, some are better friends with him then me. Anyways, at first it was funny because he's never had a girlfriend before. But they are still hitting on him. I've tried telling him.. but i get all shakey because i love my friends so much and i dont wanna start anything. I know that most people say "well your real friends only want you happy" n that's so true because im close friends are getting mad but i dunno. I feel lost n confused. I've tried talking to my boyfriend about it but he just tells me not to worry about it.. but i cant help it. Should i really tell my friends that i want them to stop.. even though i know that they will say "god! we are kidding around. take a joke" (sigh) a little help? thanks,
Lost and Confused girl.
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Well here's the thing. you seem to be beating yourself up about this.
1. If your friends really cared about you they'd say "awh I'm sorry girl. I had no idea I was doing it. I will stop. I don't wanna mess anything up."
2. Have you talked to your boyfriend about it? If you see that he's flirting back then that's where the problem is. Obviously your boyfriend really cares about you and he doesn't want to lose you
Talking to both your boyfriend and your friends will be tough. If your friends get mad and defensive, then that's where they know that they're doing it and now feel bad.
Yes, It's going to be hard, but if you want things to only move forward with your boyfriend, you really need to talk to him. I think your friends, and your boyfriend will respect that you're speaking up. But remmeber to casually bring it up. Don't be mean or sound like you wanna beat someone out. Just relax and do it!
I really hope this helps. Let me know how it works! I'm always available on my contact info!
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