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more then jus a friend
so i hav this guy friend and ive been really good friends with him for like a year mayby and i jus recently realized that im falling for him!i sit next to him in german and were always hitting each other and tickling each other and hes really funny and hes smart too! the problem is if i do go out wit him im afraid it might b akward.then if we brake up im afriad things might change!he a really sweet,funny,and good friend of mine and i really dont want that frinedship to end!hes one of my few guy friends and i really dont wanna loose his friendship! its jus that id rather be his friend then his gf for a while then never talk to him again!im jus kinda afraid to take a chance!
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If everyone thought like this throughout their entire lives, no one would ever set foot outside their houses.
Life is about risks. You say if you broke up you might lose a great friend... what if you don't break up? You not only keep your great friend, but you gain a great partner in life. It is possible for relationships to break down and the people involved still be friends. I am still very good friends with a guy I split up with 12 years ago.
Stop thinking negatively about this and start thinking positively.
Try and find out how he feels about you. Drop little hints into conversations, things that would force him to tell you his feelings. Like for example, when you do something silly, say to him something like 'but you love me anyway'. Things like that.
Or you could come right out and tell him you're falling for him and wait for his response.
Either way, you can't spend your life knowing how you feel and wondering how he feels. You never know. he might be the one you're supposed to be with, which you'll never get to find out if you sit back and take no risks.
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ive been in the same situation he was my best friend then he asked me out and i said i wanted to stay friends he got real hurt and now i dont even know if were friends, i still cant take it. i say try it its better than not and youll never no what u could be missing. but make sure hes willing to stay friends no matter what and if it ever starts falling apart catch it fast and fix it. i was just like you, posted so many questions on us flirting but not dating and wanting to stay friends. i thought this was one i posted a while ago lol. now him and one of my best friends are flirting he even said hed never do that to me.
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