I'm going to homecoming in 2 weeks, (yes our homecomingt is kinda late) and im a freshman, and ive never been to a real dance before becuase i use to go to a private school wear they didnt have dances. I have a date, but I just dont know what to excpet, like how to dance and grind on stuff. Any got some tips/pointers. thanku!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? stephandjess answered Friday October 5 2007, 1:21 am: hey I'm 17, and I don't think grinding is frowned upon actually.. its weird because the only people who don't really like it are people that are older than us.. but if you think about it thats because when they were our age they danced differently.. every generation has changed in their type of dancing. when we look at older people dancing were like what the heck is that and they do they same thing.. But i certainly think that from our generation on grinding wont be frowned upon anymore because our kids will most likely do it and they will probably change dancing a bit too.. Where I come from grinding is all we do... and its extremelyyyy fun I'm not going to lie. Try it out if you feel comfortable.. Its pretty easy you just move your body with the guys(or girls it doesn't really matter its not considered weird if you grind with a girl)its like a flowing motion. It's really not bad I still don't understand why people don't like it.. Like grinding and dirty dancing are so similar but dirty dancing is like an art to people and beautiful to watch...I wish my school still had dances because theyre so much fun..
I hope you have fun at your first dance.. Don't worry about what other people think just make the best of it!!! you can message or email me if you want to talk more [ stephandjess's advice column | Ask stephandjess A Question ]
uisforukelele answered Thursday October 4 2007, 9:36 pm: well, since you've never been to a real dance before, let me give you some tips. it will be fun if you make it fun! also, grinding is considered trashy. sorry. i mean, if you want to, that's fine with me, but that's definitely frowned upon. and if you're all over guys, that's also considered trashy (once again, sorry). (i'm 16/f by the way, if it helps.) what to expect... at first things will be kind of slow, and nobody will be dancing, but like an hour into it, it will be crazy. just sing and dance all crazy like! don't ever stand still, it makes it not fun. and also, it doesn't really matter if you slow dance or not, or who you slow dance with. dancing with just a friend is definitely fine. the last formal i went to, i slow danced with five different guys and it was okay, so i'm just letting you know. dances are like my favorite thing in the world. the energy is so amazing. just hang out with a big group of friends so you'll always have somebody to talk to or whatever. [ uisforukelele's advice column | Ask uisforukelele A Question ]
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