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Girlfriend!!!!! I have talked to her about these issues before because my girlfriend and i are 110% comfortable with talking about anything. She seems to share the same feeling about not wanting to end up like our parents. She says thats how i should trust her because she's serious about us and wouldnt be moving in with me if she thought i wouldnt be able to trust her again and would fail or end up like our parents.
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She, and you, can't just assume you will trust her again. You probably will fully trust her again someday, but there is a possibility that you won't.
Something you can do is not move in with her until you feel you can fully trust her in your mind, your heart, your gut.
You can't regain someone's trust by saying "see I'm committed, let's move in together" it just doesn't work that way. No matter what her stance is on divorce and failure.
But then again, often times life is about taking risks and hoping for the best. Correct? ]
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