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Reason!!! I want to work things out because i know she's "The One". We have such a great times together and want the same things out in life house, marriage, children. I think the thing that's briging up these feeling's and making me a little uneasy happens to be because things are becoming more serious and i dont want to end up like my parents divorced. I mean both my girlfriend and I's parents are divored with kids and either of us want to have that happens to us. So i think the reason for the feeling's are things are more serious then ever and we are planning on moving in together but i just dont want to end up making a mistake and ending up like my parents or being hurt in that way.
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Well, you are thinking smart. Unlike a lot of folks, you are THINKING before acting. But you can't go through life not taking big steps like this out of fear of failure, OR taking big steps like this with fear of failure in your mind.
If you go through life like that, then you have a long, long life ahead of you.
Often times, life is about taking risks and hoping for the best.
If you want things to work out, then you BOTH have to make it work together. You have to feel comfortable with sharing thoughts and feelings with one another.
That means, you really need to discuss with her this unease you are having. I wager you are probably nervous to talk to her about this out of fear of upsetting her, but this is something the two of you need to sit down and talk about before you move in together. ]
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