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Trust?!?!?
Hello,
I wanted to thank you 4 the advice. I have one more question though. My girlfriend and i have been togehter for 2 years now. My girlfriend lost my trust awhile ago by lying but once i explained it happend to be hurting me she has shown inprovment and seems to have stopped lying. Do you think by her showing she wants not to hurt me that she can be fully trust again?!?!?
Thanks!!!!
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Well, I can't honestly tell you weather or not she can fully be trusted.
It's like this- when someone breaks your trust, it hurts, and it does damage. The saying rings true that it is easier to forgive than forget.
If she is trying, then that is worth something, but she will most likely have to work a lot harder to fully regain your trust.
The fact that you say she 'seems to have stopped lying' goes to show that she has a ways to go before she regains your trust. That statement tells me that you don't trust that she stopped lying.
Don't worry about your feelings of mistrust, because this is perfectly normal. Meaning you are doing nothing wrong by trusting your instinct.
I know this is just a common answer, but you will know when you can fully trust her again. Listen to your gut. It is 9 times out of 10 right.
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