There is something wrong with my dog. She gets into everthing and never listens. when I say NO she gets it and runs around the table I can't stand her. Does anyone have any ideas of how i could train and control this dog?
Brandi_S answered Wednesday October 3 2007, 12:12 am: Well, consistency is the key. When you say "no" always add authority to your voice and be firm "NO!" Her problem is she likely doesn't see you as being the boss.
Point your finger at her when you say "NO!" This will teach her that she is doing wrong even if you are unable to be authoritative, such as during a big family dinner. You can just point as you do when being vocal.
You CAN teach a dog to listen to your hand gestures as well as your voice. I've done it myself. When she comes to jump up on you, hold out a flat hand and say "DOWN!" When you want her to come to you, point to the floor in front of your feet and say "COME!" Stuff like that. She will learn what your hands are saying.
When she is well behaved, pat her and tell her kindly "good girl" and give her a little treat. For instance when she sits patiently and doesn't run around the table. Or when you come home and she hasn't gotten into things. It takes a while, but she will learn that when she misbehaves, she gets no treats.
Now remember, this stuff doesn't work unless you are consistent with her. You can't do this stuff for a couple days, stop, and expect her to remember a week from now, and get angry with her because she hasn't learned anything. This is a constant, daily thing.
You'll know when she has learned, because she will respond as you want her to.
Also, you have to give her more positive attention than commands. "NO!" is a negative command, and she knows it. If you can't stand her, she won't want to listen to you. Why? Would you want to take instruction from someone who is negative towards you? Remember, just like dogs can sense fear, they can sense negativity.
If you love her and give her lots of attention and show affection, she will be more apt to see you as her friend and listen to you.
Not saying you don't love your dog or anything, but that is just a vibe I get from saying you can't stand her.
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