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girls orgasm fast?
okay so me and my girlfriend do everything but sex. and well she loves me to finger her. is there a way to bring her to orgasm fast? how do i tell if she has an orgasm?
help is appricated
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As a woman who's masturbated since pre-puberty, I personally know how to make myself orgasm within a minute; unfortunately for me, no woman can be a real spokeswoman on this, as both our bodies and tastes may differ extremely.
I could tell you what to do to make me orgasm fast, but I feel that would be backwards: you aren't making out with me. What you really need to do is ask your girlfriend what she does alone.
Roleplay like she's the Queen of Sheba and you're her house-slave or something; have her give orders. Tease her body and see what makes her pant, moan, and wriggle.
When she orgasms, her tummy will tense and she won't want you to switch spots; she'll writhe and push against you. She might make a worrying amount of noise. I suggest that by this point, you've learned to use your tongue and fingers at the same time: fingers reaching up and in, in a "c'mere, c'mere" motion, with your tongue teasing her clitoris.
More importantly, take a minute to decide whether you want to give her a quick orgasm ... or an AMAZING one. Time spent teasing often = a more mindblowing experience; she can either look back to you as the reliable, boring orgasm-giver, or the guy who spent hours making her forget that anything else existed; your choice.
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