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boyfriendd I don't know whats going on but...sometimes when I ask my boyfriend "what are you doing?" he says "not you" and
it makes me sad/mad, and yeah I don't know..I'm like oh my gosh? We've never had sex..I haven't ever, but he has.
so do you think he's just using me? but I think he's just joking, but honestly..i don't know..
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Don't take it personally.
Guys tend to get like that sometimes and the funny thing is that they actually think it's funny 8-|
Some guys just need to grow up and some just need to get it engraved in their heads that saying perverted jokes are 89% of the time not funny to girls, although it may be to them.
I'm not quite sure how he's using you by saying that...but I pretty much doubt it. He MIGHT be hinting that he might want to sleep with you in a frivolous way.
So, to put it in simple terms:
No, he's not using you.
I believe that he's just joking around.
But I'm not his brain so I don't know what he's actual reasoning behind that statement it.
I suggest that you just hang up on him the next time he does that. If he calls back, good. If he asks what's up, tell him that you're sick of him saying that to you and you don't like it. If he doesn't, but asks you at school, same thing applies: tell him you don't find it funny at all. If he doesn't ask, I'm going to have to say, "what a jerk".
Good luck & if you have any questions, I'm here to answer =)
Emily
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