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okay, me and my boyfriend have been together about 3 months. well everything was perfect, and then he started football. we're currently on a break for about another 2 weeks, and i'm fine with that. i support his football too btw. so we're still good, but then i go to his profile, and some girl commented him saying i love you baby! so im like wtf? and i ask him about it and he was like no im not about to go out with anybody else, damnnit. we kinda fought but it ended up him telling me that she added him yesterday and that shes going crazy and that he doesnt even know her. so i messaged her before that stuff happened and asked her if she was with him. she told me not yet, but shes going to be. so i didnt say anything back. then later that night, she messaged me again and said me and nick are just friends ok? so i still wasnt sure so i was like thats so f*cked up he would do that to me and i'm not stupid. so she messaged me back today and was like your his ex so he can move on you know so get over it. i told her we were going to get back together, and that he doesnt like her cause shes crazy, and that she needs to get over it.she messaged me back saying w.e b*tch we'll see. so i tried talking to my boyfriend, which he has a game tonight so that was hard, and he was just like you have to end the fight, so i told her that i dont want to fight with her, so just leave him alone. my boyfriend told me we're still going to be together and that he loves me. his bestfriend doesnt even know this girl either. she made her name on myspace #43 ily baby! which is my boyfriends football number. shes not on his top or anything, so i can see partly that he could be telling the truth. i'm still not sure, what should i do? i love this boy to death, but this girl is trying to get in between! i believe him for the most part, should i or should i not? HELP!
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This girl is throwing everything she can at your guy's face. Chances are he does still want to be with you, but he probably is at least flattered by this new girl. Just wait and see how things turn out. Talk to him about it when you are concerned, but try not to let it bother you too much. The two of you shouldn't be fighting over a guy. He will either go back out with you or go for her. It's his choice and regardless of who he picks, he liked you and thought you were a good girlfriend. If he didn't, he wouldn't be assuring you that he's staying with you. So just wait it out. His decision will depend on if he feels he needs a change or not, it won't have anything to do with you. There's nothing you can do except wait and see.
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Your boyfriend's probably right. A lot, a lot or girls go crazy for guys they don't even know on online chat sites, especially when they think they're good-looking. Tell your boyfriend to remove her from his friends list, because it would make YOU more comfortable. She is trying to convince you that he doesn't like you anymore, or that they're in a relationship, because she actually isn't and really wants to be. Ignore her after he's removed her, and tell your boyfriend to do the same. If he won't, then maybe it's time for some serious consideration on what your relationship is worth. Best of luck.
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