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AARGGHHH!!


Question Posted Thursday September 27 2007, 1:18 pm

soo theres this boy who i have been talking and well last june we started talking like everyday and got really close like bestest freinds coz he told me evrything and me to him like literalyy everything! until november when my best freind went out with him for tw days and then broke up and then i started feelin bit jelsous but i triednot to..i duno i was feelin different! but he kinda gave me the impression b4 hand that he likd me coz he would say all this sweet stuff and say like bf and gf things to me! anyway, he stopped talkin to me in december for some reason - when everyone asks him hes like i dnt like 2 talk bout the past anymore!
soo.. recently he started talkin to me sayin that he dont want 2 keep a grudge with anyone..he used to go to my school but left because he failed and had to go some place else..every time i talk to him i feel happier..but i dont think about him that much at all! and recently he kissed my best friend and didnt even call her back!
ive been trying to move on but i just cant and i dont know what to do at all!
so can somebody tell me how to handle the problem? if i like him or if were just friends?
and what to dooo?.. and recently again hes bein really rude to me and cuttin the calls when he sees my number or if i all hed hear my voice and cut the phone? lately i have been thinkin bout him
im soo confused thanks in advance and fast please thanks honeys x plus hes never there for me he always worries about his stuff thanks x


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Additional info, added Thursday September 27 2007, 3:20 pm:
and by the way if anyones wandering his stuff means when ever hes upset i will always talk to him make him feel better but when i need some one to talk to hes always busy or doesnt care..n i feel like hes using..what should i doo?..and could i also get males perspective on why hes doing this and whats the deal...but everyonez welcomed! thanks babes x x.

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scootermclisle answered Saturday September 29 2007, 10:11 am:
This guy is obviously very messed up. You are an excellent friend to him, and I'm sure he isn't hurting you on purpose. At the same time, it's obvious he is hurting you. Try not to worry about him as much; try thinking about other things and people. I wish you the best of luck.

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teardrops7 answered Friday September 28 2007, 8:21 pm:
well ima girl but i will tell you my view in the nicest way i can possible. i think you have been played honey. I think you do like him, you just probably didnt notice it until after you saw him with another girl, but i mean maybe he dated your bff to make you jealous and he got mad when you didnt take action. and as towards the end of the story is where you sound like a girl who has been played... i hope i helped- really. im sorry if it isnt what you wanted to hear its just what it sounds like to me...xoxo teardrops7



THANKS FOR THE FEEDBACK!!! and i mean just hang out with your friends or do something you like to do, just stay busy and if his name comes up or he comes up just walk away.

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