Question Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 3:59 pm
Hey, i needed advice from a guy's point of view, and i thought maybe you could help me with this...
I just started high school, about 3 weeks ago. There is this guy that sits behind me, named Ryan, and we joke around all the time. In Middle school, i was flirty with some guys, but in a joking way. I would never actually do what i joke about. I thought that i wouldnt act like that in high school, since rumors fly and i dont want to be considered a slut. Ryan and I joke around all the time, and just today, we were flirting. I do not do this to all guys, just the ones that I like and im not going to do much of it in high school. I dont know, should i still flirt and joke around with him.(We joke about sex) or should i not? I told him its only between me and him, but i dont know. I dont have a BF, and im considered a really smart good girl in my classes.
What should i do? Put my flirting keys low-key?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Cux answered Wednesday September 26 2007, 9:42 pm: Don't ever be ashamed of flirting- who cares if people think you're a slut. That word, along with "whore" "bitch" and a number of others too inappropriate for this site, are just thrown around by anyone. Seriously- don't let stupid immature people stop you from experiencing one of the funnest parts of teenage-dom: and no, that isn't sex or any of the other things teens do these days because they want to feel cool.
Flirt to your hearts content- but remember, it doesn't all have to be sexual flirting [I guess this is what you would call it]- it can be really innocent =D.
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