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friends bf is ughhhh ever so rude and annoying
my BFF has this bf....he's ugly, rude, and grr meannn. the other day i said i'd give him another chance. but this was like the 6th time ive said this to her! then friday at a football game me, her and a bunch of our friends went there and her bf had friends there too. it was all fine but then we were joking around and i guess he really can not take a joke. so then he thought my friend [[his gf]] told him to go away, but it was my other friend just kidding. so then he got all mad. then he took her away from us and we thought she was dissing us or something. then they came back. then they went off again. blah blah blah. then it was time to leave. we were standing by a fence so we wouldnt get trampled over then he was all making fun of me and saying i was stupid and somehting about flying pigs? yeah i dont know. so then i asked if he could please stop. but nooooo he kept going on. so then i was saying how he kept looking down her shirt [[clearly everyone could see that and he denied it and called me a lesbo which i am CLEARLY not but he kept going on]] and i told him i was going to kick him if he didnt stop [[cause i'd figure hed stop]] but noooooooooooooooo so i went to "kick" him [[i wasnt going to]] but he put his hand out and i ended up kicking him in the hand? then he was all cussing out trying to be cool :/ and hes like u jammed my finger bitch blah blah blahh... so then i kept going off with my other friend to find this guy i like --hehe-- but we went back and my friends like lets have a talk with u [[me]] and him. yeah, so i was talking to my other friend whispering but all i was saying was inside jokes. then my friends bf kept hugging her and when i mean hugging he was like squeezing so he hugged her once, and then hes like bye, then he hugged her again, then hes like, "one more hug before i go" dude so im talking to my other friend telling her hes only hugging her to get to her boobs. and before all this he was being lazy and just wanted to be with her alone. grrrrrr what do i do summer ive tried everything and everytime i say its okay shes going out with him, everythings fine, then a few days later, everything gets worse then it was before!!!!!! i really dont know what to do anymore
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Bottomline is you can't stop your friend from dating who she wants, even if you find that person to be repulsive. The best thing for you to do is hang out with her separately. Don't go hang out with them together. Your friend clearly knows how you feel about him because you've talked about it before. Just say, "I've given him a lot of chances, but I would really rather not be around him anymore."
As much as she doesn't have to break up with him, you don't have to deal with being around him. It's not as though you're jumping to conclusions if you've tried to hang out with him and he's been rude/mean/annoying every time.
If that's the type of person your friend wants to date, you've got to let her do what she wants to do. In your question, I see faults on both of your parts. I think you've probably just got clashing personalities, which is just something that happens in life. It's best to just separate yourself from that person and move on with things.
When their relationship runs its phase and they've broken up, it won't be a big deal anymore. But, until then, he must make your friend happy. It's nice that you've tried to get along with him. But it can't be fun for your friend to have her boyfriend and best friend fighting all the time. It seems to me that it would be easier to step back and let their things run their course, and just hang out with her when he's not going to be involved.
Darby(:
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