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when to make the move and how
i really really like my best guy friend. i was going to tell him but before i had the chance this other girl told him she liked him. so they went out for a few weeks but now they broke up about 2 days ago. my first question is, when is the right time to let him know im interested in him? and the second question is, how do i tell him im interested in him, i flirt with him all the time and he hasn't seemed to get the hint .
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If you already flirt with him all of the time, how do you know he doesn't know you like him? He could be really dense, in which case you should just tell him. However, it could also be that he doesn't like you back, or that he likes you but doesn't know what to do about it. Think about it, he just got out of a relationship two days ago.
You should probably judge how he reacts to you before you tell him you like him. Does he flirt back, or is he just being your friend (ei flirting, but he doesn't get any sort of cushy look in his eye or get involved in the flirting and just lets you flirt with him instead of participating much). If it's hard to tell and or you think he's dense, wait a while just to be safe. It may not have been that serious of a relationship, but be sensible enough not to ask him out, say, tomorrow. Since you two are close, you can ask him about the girl. Say you are sorry about what happened, and find out how he feels about the whole thing. Once he has moved on, ask him out somewhere. Tell him you like him, but don't rush anything just yet.
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