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Girl I Like
Male 18
Hey I really like and care about this one girl. When we talk usually we just yell back and forth then end up hugging in the end. It's weird I know but that is just how we are. The thing is she flirts with a lot of guys I guess because that is just her personality but do you have any tips for me that would make me stand out ( in a good way ) from the other boys. Also any good date ideas for the two of us. It's also weird because i really like her but I don't want a girlfriend. I would be happy just hanging out and going on dates. Any ideas for how I should handle this. Thanks.
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Well, the thing is, you can't lead her one. Once you start dating, she's probably going to expect something to eventually happen on a relationship level. After you go on your dates, how ever many it'll take, you should really decide if you want something more or if you want to remain friends.
To stand out to her..
I'm pretty flirty with guys as well and I've just started to realize a few things about guys. Many of those guys are probably throwing comments at her and being, well, typical guys (I probably shouldn't say that but it's true). Give her compliments that she wouldn't usually get. You always hear that thing about, "Don't tell her she's hott, she wants to hear shes beautiful." And it's pretty much true. Compliment her on her outfit and tell her she looks cute today. Most guys don't notice things like shoes but if she's anything like me, she'll get a big smile on her face if you do notice them. Not if she's wearing flip flops or anything, but if she has on a cute pair of heels.
Arguing if fine but don't be mean. Sometime people are mean when they're yelling and although you don't want to change anything, you want her to know you like her.
Something really nice you can do to let her know you think about her is buy her something when you're just randomly at the mall of something. A guy I know went to the mall one day and after a few hours I got a text from him saying "Hungry? Open your front door." He bought me Cajun food while he was at the mall just because. It really let me know he was into and it was just so adorable. Defiantly recommend it.
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