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jealous of me or him?
FROM Difficult
The thing is I got confused on her jealousy I couldn’t tell if she wanted a boyfriend or she like me? Lara does get guys, she told me that someone at her job was flirting with her, and a guy in her class asks her out. She said no to them and she said she not wanting a relationship until after college. This was before I told her how I felt. After I told her about my feelings to her months later I told her about that guy I met at the party I wanted to just have a talk about it because that time I knew she wasn’t interested in me. And when I did she gives me reasons I couldn’t believe. She said “I don’t know if I should be happy for you or pissed" I didn’t think of what to say but "what?" So I can’t find out if she was jealous of me or him. But she told me this "I guess time will tell for the both of us" ( was that a hint)?? And I do want to move on to see who I really am but I‘m afraid if I do she might find someone, I don’t know what to do? I moving maybe next year to a different state with my parents and I’m thinking of going even though my best friends and lara (of course) wants me to stay. I told Lara I want to go to clear my head, she said “I don’t want you to leave but I cant stop you” she is right about that, I want to stay but then again I need to clear my head.
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I stand my my theory that Lara is jealous of the guy at the party. You see, you told her you were interested in her, but then found the guy at the party. Therefore, she got jealous. She obviously really treasures your friendship, and doesn't want to lose it.
"Time will tell for both of us" might have been saying that now she's kinda upset about that, and just wants some time to see where your relationship goes.
At least, that's what I think.
My advice:
Don't get involved with anybody else, because Lara sounds interested in you.
Give her some time, then talk to her about your relationship and see how she feels.
-Laura. (15-f)
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