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hey i have been comming to your site a lot. i think your really cool. but anyways. so me and my boyfried are pretty serious. the next step we would have would be sex. im kind of scared to and all. its like i think to myself it will be fine just go for it. but then once i have the chance or w/e im just like nervous and dont want to. i know thats a natural thing.. to be nervous. but how can i help myself from not being like that.. if you can help that would be great. but if not, i understand. thanks a lot =)
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haha, thanks. Well, have you thought for sure if you want it? Sometimes, that nervousness is the feeling in your gut. And they say, that you should go with your gut instinct. If you haven't thought about it yet, you should. Cause you might just think it's nerves, but it can actually be you telling yourself, "im not ready" or something like that. But, if you have thought it over and know that your ready, you've got to just go with it when your comfortable. It might be easier to not plan it out like, don't invite him over or something and plan it like, "were going to do it .. now". Just let things naturally flow. Ya know? You can't really help being nervous. Just think to yourself, "its my boyfriend, were ready for this, i know it, he knows it, just relax.". Try thinking about how awesome it might be, instead of how scary you think it'll be. Hope this helped! Stop by again anytime =)
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