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obsessed!
15/f
Okay. So like..I hate the way I fall for guys. I always fall for their physical attributes only and I fall hard and for loooong periods of time (im talking 1 year+) Now theres this guy that I want to get over but I cant. I feel like i'm obsessed because i told him i liked him in may but he didnt realy respond either way and after the entire summer I STILL like him! So I've liked him for a year now! It's kinda like..my mind says I should get over him but my heart doesnt. So. What I need are ways for getting over guys.
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story of my life, hahah i ALWAYS was the girl who fell for guys to fast and to hard and i couldnt never get over them. but this is what i did actually my friends helped me get over this. like when you think you need to get over a guy stop hanging out with him dont talk to him like seriously take him out of you life for the time being and just start hanging out with other guys and flirting with themm and stuff. and then like you'll start to get over the other guy and you can be friends with him againn if you want too. i no it sounds really gayyy but it worked for me. and like i never relized how truely depreessed and not happy i was until i started doing this and like im a happier and like confident person now. and sounds really retarded but it seriously works hahaha
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me and you are going threw the same issue. well what i do is i try and ignore him i see him in the hallways and even worst in my last 2 periods. which doesnt help me getting over him at all. but i just try and not pay attention to him sure i wanna look at him every second of everyday. but everytime i start to think about him i try to think of something else. and it is pretty hard, sorry to say. im sure your really pretty so him not giving you a answer was a prob. a really stupid thing for him too do. maybe if you try your hardest to get to know another guy very well then he will eventually just fade away. you might not want to but after you get past a year and a couple months you are prob. going to feel like you are wasting your time. its been 2 years for me and i still cant let go of that one guy. hopefully you can find someone else. and eventually get over him. hope i helped!
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