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My boyfriend is changing. I'm really open about things but these girls keep flirting with him. They also said he should grow his hair out.. like an emo cut .. and get tight pants.. Things like that.. I guess he has everything but the hair & eyeliner. I'm not really comfortable with my boyfriend wearing eyeliner.. I don't know why it bothers me slightly.. maybe because it seems like he's trying to impress those girls? I don't know really. I'm not against change or anything, I change a lot myself.. but this bothers me.. and I don't know why. It seems as though his ego is rising. I'm fine with a little confidence but it's going too far with the whole "sexy emo" stuff. It's bad enough that these girls don't back off. They always grab his ass and fish for compliments. He doesn't touch them or anything. They know I'm dating him.. It's just.. frustrating sometimes. Any advice for me?
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Okay. Well if you tell these girls to BACK OFF, it might scare and anger your boyfriend. I mean, he does have the right to talk to other girls, so if you act too possessive, he might get mad and wanna break up with you.
I think the best thing to do is either be there when the girls are with him, and joke around with them. This way, you can keep an eye out for anything suspicious.
You should also tell your boyfriend how you feel. Don't come out and spill your feelings out all over the place. It'll make him nervous, or maybe annoyed. You can ask him WHY he wants to change. If he says for the girls, dump his sorry ass. If he says for himself, then its okay. ( I agree, eyeliner on men makes me worried, unless its Pete Wentz who looks weird without it, and incredibly hot with it)
The best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend. Tell him you don't like how the girls are acting so...sexually, if you will. Tell him its okay that hes friends with them, but you fell uncomfortable with them being so...touchy feel-y.
I hope this helps.
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