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I Like Him A lot....
I like one of my sister's friends a lot.
He's actually more of my friend than he is hers.
(Though it didn't start out that way.)
The only problem is, he is 3 years older than me,
(But he is under 18, so DON'T say it's not legal.)
Problem number two: he has a serious girlfriend.
I know we have some kind of connection.
I saw him today and we ended up hanging out for a while.
He seemed really nervous the whole time though,
but he even said he was glad he got to see me.
(Nothing physical happened.)
I see him with his girlfriend sometimes, and
he always looks really unhappy. She always looks
like she's dragging him around, and he always has
a kind of pained look on his face.
But he is so committed to her and it seems like,
he'll never break up with her!
Should I try to get closer to him,
maybe find out a little more about him and his girlfriend?
Or should I just leave the situation alone?
I'm not sure how my sister would react if I went out with him,
and I'm not even sure if he likes me!
Is just friends for the best?
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No, you should not try to get closer to him and learn more about him and his girlfriend. That is pety and munipulative.
If he is unhappy in hsi relationship, the relationship will eventually end. If you are serious about exploring your feelings for him you'd be better to wait and not have anything to do with the breakup.
Just friends is the best, and the only respectful way to be, for now. So don't torture yourself with 'does he like me's and 'what will sis think'. There is no point in worrying about those yet. Worry about it when, and if, he becomes single.
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