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"the boy"


Question Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 9:27 pm

15/f

ive talked to this kid on the computer for around 2 years he lives around 5 sts over from me we talk online and stuff and im wondering if he likes me hes always calling me when he gets a chance which is like everyday and online hes always like call me he;'ll say something that someone didnt say online about me cuz im fighting with this girl so he'll be like she called u a "**nt " then hes like im ****ing joking then he pretends hes gonna call this other girl that i dont like .. i think he calls her after i hang up and tells her everything that i say to him because sometimes on her away it says "phone" then a lil later it says "lmaoooo " also what do i talk to him about on the phone im all confused about talking to him he always says to me ill call you tomorrow when i get home im starting to think he likes me & then in a picture in the yearbook he saw me because of his brothers yearbook he said i lookedl like a witch then i asked him the other day and he said i was just kidding then he called me pretty because i said im a mess because i overwaxed my eyebrows i asked why he called me pretty he said what do you want me to call you ugly? i said well i must be? and he says ok you said it to me i said huh ? he said i dont know you confuse me you said that you ewre ugly but i said you were pretty and you questioned me then i said well you never saw me and he says online "k well i gotta go bye" and he says are you gonna call me tonight so i called him but i run out of things to say [any suggestions?] then tonight on the phone i said i'm bored and he says your not having a great time with me are you? i said yeah i am and hes like it dosent sound like it since you said you were bored he said im having fun or something like that im all confused someone please help ! thanks also i rate.=D

He lives 5 streets over from me not 50 states.


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Psycotheis answered Sunday July 6 2008, 1:35 am:
He sounds like a jerk to me. Not because he confuses you or anything, but because he never seems to try to recover from when he says something wrong. He either says just kidding or goes with what you say by question which isn't a very polite thing to do. Plus he's very assuming, which is a quality everyone hates in anyone. That is according to what is above.

What you do with him is up to you. You can choose to try and fix everything that seems to be taking you on a downhill run, or do something else. I can't really say what that something else is, but its probably something he isn't going to like.

Sugestions for chit chat on the phone.
1: how his day was
2: recent events that you need to tell someone about
3: things on TV
4: anything really
Topic starters are hard to come up with, during or even before talking. But if can find things within the coversation that goes with the topic, then it will continue no matter how far away from the beginning you've went...

But what you do is up to you.

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