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relationship problems!


Question Posted Monday August 27 2007, 10:03 pm

part I:
okay well me and this AMAZING guy matt are going out. and i'm starting to like one of my ex's and a guy that i really liked last year that now likes me. matt told me to tell him if i ever started liking other guys. everyone says i shouldn't tell him but if we found out another way then it would be bad. i was about to tell him and then he started talking about how he thinks he is going to lose me because we have no classes together and he says i probably like 9043853 guys by now. so i don't want to break his heart =\. i have made him cry plenty of times for different reasons. i mean, i like him the best out of all of them and he makes me feel different when i'm around him. sooo should i tell him?

part II:
if i do tell him...i don't want to break up with him. so should i just ask him if we can just be friends with benefits and just open up our relationship so we can do stuff with other people? because i mean, i'm moving between christmas and next summer and i don't want to be with JUST him. like i am planning on hooking up for being with one of the other two guys i like. so what should i do??


any answer is appreciated!!
thank you :D


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selectopaque answered Tuesday August 28 2007, 3:19 pm:
This guy is obviously more attatched to you than you are to him. If you ask to be "friends with benefits" then that will break his heart. He doesn't want to lose you, and he wont want to share you.

If you want to be with one of the two other guys, then just break up with him. Other wise you'll just be screwing with him emotions. That would be cruel.

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