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i really love this girl. not even like. straight up in love with her. ive loved her for a year, and i killed myself everyday working out to get her approval, but theres been none. id give the world to have her for an hour, and id give up every dream ive ever had. i asked her out recently and she said she couldnt do that to me, but i talked to her ex-boyfriend and he said i was the only one who he wanted to date her. what should i do about this?
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take the blinders off theres lots of things we cant have. do a wheely an head in the other di rection something better might be there waiting brokenwing
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Why are you wasting your time talking to the ex? Its not his disition who gets to go out with her, its hers. SO TALK TO HER! Get to know her before you ask her out.
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believe me, i know where you're coming from. i've been in love with the same guy for two years, and even though we've dated on and off, and were in love at one point (who knows if he really loved me or if he just wanted to get some) he cheated on me literally every single day, and then finally had sex with my bestfriend and left me.
the point is, sometimes you have to wait a while for things to work out. this guy liked me for at least a year before i even gave him a second thought. maybe you should just try and wait a little while, because what's meant to happen will happen. if it doesn't work out, you know it's because it either shouldn't happen at all or it shouldn't happen now. if you're really set on being with her now, you can try telling her how you feel, and/or making your relationship a little more flirty as opposed to friendly. but remember, true love waits.
i hope this helped
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This is certainly not what you want to hear, but maybe it's time to move on.
You can't force her to date you, and she doesn't sound interested in dating you, so it's time to just move on and find a girl who is as crazy about you as you are about her.
There are plenty of girls out there; you just gotta find the right one ;]
--Jack
(17/m)
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