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the male type
Okay I am 15/F and I have... sort of embarrasing problem. For some reason I cannot trust guys and men. When I was younger, I was a total tomboy and ALL of my friends were guys. And I still am that way, except the only guys that I can become friends with have to be the same age or younger. I am a freshman, and I want to get to know some of the other guys that might be a little older than me, but If they ever even look at me I get all closed up and embarrased. I really hate it. The same goes with older men. Like male teachers and stuff, I am SOO closed up around them, like everyone is trying to hurt me or something. I dont know, maybe it is something from my past that causes me to do this, but I dont have anything bad that ever happaned to me. If you know of any reason I do this, it would be greatly appreciated.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I had a similar problem my freshman year. Try making friends with guys your own age first, or with people who hang out in mixed groups. I find that it's easier when you make friends with upperclassmen through friends your own age.
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