On the flipside, it's your vulva and you are in control so it should be up to you ultimately to shave or not shave. Pubic hair is natural and meant to be in your pubic region.
Guys should be mature enough to know that that pubic hair is normal and is not gross or remotely disgusting. As long as you trim it and take care of yourself hygene wise it's fine. Any guy who cannot see that both shaved and unshaven pubic areas are normal doesn't belong with you or down there.
It shouldn't matter. As far as shaving goes it does make it easier for some guys who have never been granted access to that area to know what they are doing.
Then again, you need to communicate with your partner during and before about this. Don't shave just for some guy. Do it only because its what you prefer and like for your own self. You're the one living with having shaved it and not him. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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