I am so confused w/ this guy... We hang out w/ the same people and we both know that we want each other... but we're both just not used to making moves. We hooked up at a party once while we were both drunk, which was fine. 2 nights ago I was swimming at my friend's house at like midnight and he came over and we ended up kissing. Then yesterday him, me, and 4 of our friends went to a theme park then to the beach and he and i were together the whole time and flirted all day. So then last night when we were all driving home he and I were in the back seat cuddling and I KNEW he wouldn't make a move. So I kissed him. We made out for a little bit, not very long and then we got back to our cars. I was his ride home and on the ride home he didn't say anything about it and didn't acknowledge it at all! I felt so stupid.
So what's your take on this whole situation? I'm sorry it's long but I'm just so confused! Why didn't he say anything or act like anything happened? I felt like an idiot after just kissing him and then driving him home pretending everything was normal. Does this mean he doesn't like me all of a sudden b/c I was too forward? Ugh, what is your opinion? THANK YOU!
xomegaroni answered Saturday August 18 2007, 8:26 am: Why don't you just talk to him about it?? Yes, it may be awkward at first, but it will probably be a lot more awkward every time you see each other if it was never talked about. Maybe he's just a shy person. If you want his thoughts & opinions about the situation, you have to ask him. He is obviously somewhat interested in you or he wouldn't have done any of that. He could just want a hook up & that's all, or maybe he wants something more serious like a more than friends relationship & is afraid that you don't. Talk to him about it so you know what's going on.
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