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I really miss him- my new bf
I've recently went into a relationship not long ago. I've met this really wonderful guy and he's really a very nice person.
He goes to the same school as me but the sad thing is, our timetables are very different, and we can only meet up at most once a week. Don't tell me to meet him on weekends cos both of us will be too busy catching up on our homework.
I keep thinking and missing him when he's not around me. And it's getting bad because I'm missing sleep over him. Today I actually cried on the phone when I talked to him because I really miss him so much. He told me that I shouldn't tire myself like that. And that it's not healthy for me to go on this way. He told me that I should focus on my work when I have to. I asked him if he thinks of me when he's busy and he said "honestly, no. Because I know I have to be focused". I was so hurt when he said that.
And the thing is, when I get to see him face to face, I tend not to cherish the time we have together and I just waste it away by being shy and stupid.
I really miss him and I can only get to meet him next wednesday. I need help in dealing with me missing him. It's not healthy for me to go on like this. I really don't know who to turn to and I don't wanna keep bothering my friends about this. Please..I feel terrible. I really miss him and I need to learn how to get over this without making him feel like I'm getting all sticky and immature.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Have you tried keeping on correspondence with him? Like daily emails? Or video chatting?
Another thing you might want to look into is just how much you miss him. Yes, it's normal to miss but not so much that you lose sleep over it or have your entire world surround him. Take up some hobbies or go out with friends. Because if this is left unchecked, it might spiral into a more serious issue such as extreme dependency.
Cheers,
stargirl
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