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okay, well i want to be more outgoing. i mean like when i'm with my friends i feel sort of left out because i'm not that outgoing, like i recently just went to a sleepover and there was me and three other girls and they like, the didnt leave me out but it sorta felt like i was out of place. but then when we were just talking i didn't feel like that at all. like we were all laying on the couch and one of my friends got up and went to the bathroom and when she came back she came and jumped on the couch, and i was on the end so she just had her feet on me. i mean i really dont care that she didnt want to sit on me but like i like being in the middle of things. it's really hard to explain.
and plase don't say try talking to the about how you feel, because i just want tips.
please& thank you.
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I am the exact way you are. I feel really uncomfortable around people in genral. But i recently just said "the hell w/ what other people think. At the party i am going to hang around my friends and we are gonna have FUN!"
*i don't know if you mean your uncomfortable around all people. or wht people think about you but they sort of go hand in hand*
So i recomend just at the next socail event you go to have fun and block out everyone(except your friends) and just hang out w/ them and just be ttly CRAZY! Let loose and do w/e!!! you need to let YOURSELF know that you are able to be confortable around your friends and you will be. I know it sounds strange but your brain will recive this thought as extreme confidence and allow you be open and out w/ your friends.
Know if that doesn't work. You may just need to have a sleep over and play truth or dare. It will allow you to share secrets and also show your "wild" side. You may just not be confortable because sub-consiously you belive that your friends don't REALLY know you and you need to know that your friends really love you!
*****hope i helped*****
------Katie------
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