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I made a huge mistake...
I have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is 2 years younger than me and is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other. i guess i left it there that night) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game Cait brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. Cait broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?
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Wow, well basically you have to rebuild yourself.You have to do everything in your power to make her forgive you.Call her and try to talk to her.If you have to, tell her EVERYTHING.She will deffinately won't forgive you right away or even want to talk to you, But in the end you'll find it relieving just telling her the truth.It's about trust in a relationship.You can't hide anything, including secret hook ups.You have to admit your wrong for doing that and that you'll never do it again... and mean it.It means nothing to a girl when a guy just tells a girl he won't do it again.If she means as much as you say, you will go the extra mile for her.Trust me, It takes time for her to let it go.Do little sweet things for her.Write her a letter.Sorry note, flowers , collage.. anything and everything.It takes alot for someone to earn trust back.Well I hope I helped and good luck.Keep me updated! :]
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