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what is this guy thinking
Ok a guy who is like my brother gave his best friend my number and he started texting me. Well he wants to go to the movies sometime and hes like you better be up for more than just a movie. And my friend went to school with him and he had a girlfriend for like 4 years and she turned psycho she said hes jumped around from girl to girl. I mean when your young things change you are feeling curious, I mean was you the same as you were 5 years ago? And I don't think my big brother would want a guy to hurt me and I mean it's his best friend, does he maybe just wanna hang out or what? Or does he like me?
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Oh, sweetie. Well, perhaps you can schedule a playdate with him and his friend, your "brother". The movies could work if you want it to. This guy could be asking for a little more than appropriate friendship relations, but, honey, you need to make sure you're comfortable with that. However, if you are not (trust your instincts on this one), just pack him a little peanut butter and jelly sandwich and send him on his merry way. And then, you might want to have a little private chit-chat with your "brother"and ask him if he really treasures your inner-feelings. But, darling, don't go into it with a bad attitude, for this could be a miraculous adventure! We are rooting for you!
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Look, he is trying to get some information out of you. If you don't respond to the "and you better be up for more than just a movie" he is going to assume that he can at least make a move on you. If you do repond with Yes I am , he is going to assume he CAN make a move on you. If you respond with No, I am NOT up for more than just a movie, then He'll behave. (Hopefully) So why not say, look, I hardly know you, I don't mind going to a movie with you but you shouldn't assume that anything else is going to happen. AND THEN, the ball is in your court, and you can make up your own mind. Isn't it better that way. You have the control and you make the decision. Never leave it up to he guy, because they always want to get naked, with anyone. What if you don't like him? You think that saying no is enough. Not any more. Some guys are just a**h*les and think they are entitled to get intimate with a girl just because they spent money on a movie. And hey, I wouldn't count on your brother thinking about your safety. If he did, he wouldn't let you date anyone, because he KNOWS how guys are.
Michele
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