i asked a question asking if someone would rate my picture and tell me what they think and they deleted my question
id like to know what was wrong with that. there was nothin wrong about my picture?!
This site is for the giving of advice. Although we intepret advice quite broadly and accept many different kinds of questions, we do not allow 'do I look hott in this picture' type of questions. There are many sites which cater to this kind of question, so there is no need for us to cover them here. We feel this site offers a unique perspective where people can talk about problems. This purpose would be made more difficult if the site had an influx of questions like yours, which are essentially asking for an ego-massage. Questions of the 'hot-or-not' genre do not invite constructive comments, or in depth answers. They just beg samey responses that tell you you are pretty - and that's not why our columists are here.
If you have a problem, then it's fine to ask a question. If you struggle with self-confidence, as you seem to, then it's okay to ask a question about having your confidence dented by remarks made by somebody about one of your pictures - because that's asking for advice, for help, for commiseration, stories - whatever people have to share. But posting a picture and asking if it's hot? That isn't, and that's why it's not acceptable here.
I hope that is clear. Please do not ask this type of question again.
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