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my so called friend
Okay my best friend has been there for me since day one and ive done the same for her, and her boyfriend is all like "She's stealing you away from me, or your always with her" when its not true because i barely see her because she's always with him. and im not the type of friend that would make her chose because then i wouldnt be a good friend and well the other day her boyfriend called and she was supposed to be staying for me that night and he got all whinny saying that he wanted to see her when he just saw her earlier that day. so he called her parents and her parents made her go home. that was the last straw and i was alittle upset but i apologized to her and now she isnt talking to me. i dont know what to do so if you have any advice i would be so grateful.
thank you so much.
peace&&love.
Kim
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Wow; thats tuff. I understand how you feel, pretty much hopeless right? Well the key is to not yell at her or make her angry which can be so hard especially when you're so frustrated. I would suggest writing a letter. That way you won't raise your voice at her or make her mad. Plus you can write and re-write it to make sure you don't slip and say something you'll regret. It has worked for me many times. Just explain how she makes you feel. Tell her your side of the story. You said some really good stuff in your question such as, how your not the kind of friend that would make her choose, how you really miss her, and how your new boyfriend is making you feel. Go for a tear jerker; that usually means its good.
Example:
I really miss you Tally*. But I am not the kind of friend that would make you choose. I am happy for you and your boyfriend, and I understand how you could easily fall in love with him and want to spend lots of time with him. But you are such a great friend and I have so much fun when we hang out. You are the best friend I ever had. We have been there for each other since day one and I would hate to lose you. I am not asking you to give up time with your boyfriend, I am just asking for you to make time for me. Because I love our friendship and I would just die if we stopped being such good friends. Maybe sometime we can all three hang out! But if you don't want to I understand. Well I love you and I hope you make a good decision. You know my number.
Your BFF ?
Kim <!3
That's just an example but if you like it you can change or add things. I really hope my advice helped you and that everything worked about between you and Tally* ;) Good Luck, keep me posted.
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